"Unhealed pain creates a ‘victim’ mentality, in which we are constantly searching for an external enemy to blast with our repressed rage. We project this rage onto a convenient, easy target. If we can blame someone for why we feel bad, then for a short time we feel better. If we haven’t forgiven and accepted ourselves, and those who hurt us, and stepped into a true knowing of our own value, we will keep seeking revenge over and over again." — David Wilcock